Are
you confused about the direction of your relationship? Relationships
are often happy at the beginning, but over time they can become negative
without you realizing. All relationships require effort and hard work,
and without these things you may notice that you feel unhappy and
under-appreciated.
Check out 8 telltale signs that your relationship may not last.
1. Your partner can’t accept you for who you are
Everyone has positive and negative traits, and a good partner will
accept all of your flaws. Your partner doesn’t have to enjoy watching
The Real Housewives with you, but they should accept that you enjoy it
and leave you to it without judgment. If your partner doesn’t like more
important things like the way you dress or your career, it is time for
you to leave. Being unable to accept one another for who you are is one
of the biggest indicators that the relationship won’t work out.
2. You can’t accept your partner for who they are
Accepting each other works both ways. If your partner loves you for
who you are then you should be able to offer the same to your partner.
Ask yourself this; if there are things your partner does that you hate
or cannot come to terms with, why are you with them?
3. You struggle to handle each other during the hard times
Relationships come with intimacy, happiness and laughter, but they
also come with stress, bad moods and hardship. Of course you will love
your partner when they are happy and relaxed, but do you feel the same
way about them when they are irritated? In a relationship you should
support each other during hard times, not push each other away.
4. Your needs are not being met by your partner
Your partner cannot do everything for you; for instance, it is
demanding and clingy to insist they talk to you every hour of the day.
However it is important that they can meet your needs in the
relationship department. They should be able to cheer you up after a
tough day, and they should be able to provide you with love and support.
If they can’t give you these things the relationship will deteriorate.
5. You are not at the same place mentally
If you are ready to get married and settle down and your partner
wants to travel alone for a few years, you may start to encounter
problems. If you realize your relationship is becoming serious, it is
useful to sit down and talk about both of your plans for the future. It
isn’t anyone’s fault if you have different interests, but you both
deserve to know if you’re not in the same boat.
6. You put work into the relationship but your partner does not
Relationships are what you put into them. Both partners need to give
and take, and sometimes one partner may give more or take more. This can
cause a problem as you should both be putting an equal amount of effort
into the relationship. If one of you doesn’t care enough to meet the
other halfway, it could be a sign that the relationship has become
unhealthy and negative.
7. You struggle to trust each other
Both you and your partner should trust each other implicitly. If your
partner has given you a reason to distrust them, you can either forgive
them and try toe and Facebook Messages forge a future or move on. The
worst decision you can make is choosing to stay when you don’t trust
them. If you find yourself checking your partner’s phone when they leave
the room, breaking up and moving on may be the best option for both of
you.
8. You don’t see long-term potential
A relationship requires a lot of time and effort, so it is important
to make sure you are putting in work for something that could actually
last. You don’t have to want to marry your partner, but you should be
able to envision a happy future together. If you don’t see a future
together at all it may be time for you to move on.
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